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How to Deliver an Exceptional Nursery Tour: A Guide for Staff

Lara Hudson
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January 21, 2026
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10 minutes read

About Tim Seldin

Author, Educator and President of The Montessori Foundation

Tim Seldin is an author, educator and the President of The Montessori Foundation and Chair of The International Montessori Council. His more than forty years of experience in Montessori education includes twenty-two years as Headmaster of the Barrie School in Silver Spring, Maryland. He is the author of several books including “The World In The Palm of Her Hand” more

About Lara Hudson

Early Years Leader and Education Strategist

Lara is an early years professional with over 25 years of international experience, including two decades in the UAE education sector. She has held senior leadership roles such as Chief Operating Officer and Country Manager for major training and education groups. She is also a passionate advocate for the power of early experiences in shaping lifelong learning.

In every nursery, there is a moment when everything slows down. A family walks through the door, hopeful and cautious all at once. They are not just visiting a building. They are deciding where their child will be held, guided, and understood.

A nursery tour is not a formality. It is one of the most important experiences you offer a family. How you welcome them, what you show them, and how you speak about children will shape how they feel long after they leave.

This guide is designed for nursery staff who lead tours. It offers a clear, practical approach to delivering a tour that feels warm, confident, and genuine, while helping families decide if your setting is the right place for their child.

The Importance of a Childcare Tour

For families, choosing a nursery is deeply emotional. They may compare websites and fees, but the tour is where decisions are truly made.

A strong nursery tour helps parents answer two core questions.

“Is my child safe here?”

Families look for more than locked doors or sign-in sheets. They notice supervision, staff awareness, calm routines, and how adults respond to children. A tour allows them to feel whether safety is lived, not just stated.

“What will my child actually experience each day?”

A tour brings your practice to life. It shows how children spend their time, how learning unfolds through play, and how your setting differs from others they may visit. This is where you move beyond comparison and help families understand what makes your nursery special.

When done well, a tour builds trust. It replaces uncertainty with clarity and helps families imagine their child thriving in your care.

A Step-by-Step Guide to Leading a Meaningful Nursery Tour

A strong tour follows a natural journey. It flows the way a day in the nursery flows, with intention and purpose. Below is a clear structure staff can follow from start to finish.

1. Begin With a Warm Welcome

First impressions matter. Begin the tour with a warm and genuine welcome to set a positive tone. Greet visitors confidently, introduce yourself, and establish an immediate sense of connection. Thank them for coming.

Take a moment to connect before you begin walking. Ask a simple, open question such as, “Tell me a little about your child” or “What are you hoping to find in a nursery?”

This small pause helps families feel seen and sets the tone for the rest of the visit.

Share a brief overview of the nursery’s vision and mission so they understand what your setting stands for. Your aim in these first moments is to help families feel relaxed, reassured, and ready to enjoy the tour ahead.

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💡Tip: Listen closely. Families often tell you what matters most within the first few minutes

2. Walk Them Through the Environment

As you move through the nursery, guide families calmly through key areas. Show classrooms, play spaces, bathrooms, shared areas, and any unique spaces that reflect your setting’s character. Speak naturally about how children use each space during the day.

Explain how indoor and outdoor environments work together. If outdoor learning happens year-round, share how this supports resilience, wellbeing, and development.

Point out safety and security measures without overemphasis. Families should feel reassured, not alarmed.

3. Bring the Classroom Experience to Life

When you enter classrooms, invite families to observe what is happening in real time.

Explain daily routines and how children are grouped by age or stage. Highlight the learning materials available and describe how each activity links to outcomes. Describe what children are doing and why it matters.

For example, you might say, “Right now, the children are choosing their own activities. This helps build independence and confidence.”

Use child-centred language that helps parents picture their own child in the room.

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💡Tip: Avoid jargon. Speak as if you are explaining learning to a friend, not delivering a presentation.


4. Explain the Curriculum Clearly

Parents do not need a full curriculum lesson. They need clarity.

Explain your framework in simple, parent-friendly terms. If you follow EYFS, briefly outline how learning is supported through play, and how Prime and Specific Areas develop over time.

Share how you support language development, early literacy, EAL or Arabic learners, and individual needs. Explain how staff observe children, plan next steps, and track progress.

Families often want to know how they will stay informed. Be clear about how learning and progress are shared.

5. Introduce the Team

People matter more than posters on walls.

Introduce families to key team members as you move through the nursery. Speak with pride about staff qualifications, experience, and specialist training.

Help families understand that their child will be cared for by a consistent, knowledgeable team who know children well.

When families trust the people, they trust the setting.


6. Showcase Outdoor Learning

Outdoor spaces deserve their own moment.

Explain how outdoor play supports physical development, emotional regulation, and social skills. Describe how outdoor time extends classroom learning rather than replacing it.

Reassure families about supervision and safety while keeping the focus on children’s enjoyment and growth.

7. Share Enrichment and After-School Activities

If your nursery offers enrichment or after-school activities, explain the range of options and how they enhance children’s experiences and support families.

Highlight the convenience of having these activities onsite, especially during warmer months when travel can be challenging.

Many parents appreciate knowing their child can enjoy meaningful activities in a familiar environment.

Be clear that these are optional additions, not expectations.

8. Highlight Parent Partnership

Strong nurseries work in partnership with families.

Explain how you communicate with parents and keep them involved in their child’s journey. Share examples such as daily updates, photos, messages, or learning summaries.

Reinforce that parents are welcomed, informed, and respected as partners in their child’s development.

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Tip: For ideal parent communication and partnership, a tool like illumine is a must!

With illumine’s parent communication features , send one-on-one or group messages, share unlimited media and voice notes, record concerns and observations, and give real-time updates about children’s activities.


9. Clarify Enrollment and Key Policies

Before the tour ends, explain the enrollment process clearly. Outline the steps, timelines, and what families can expect next.

Briefly touch on key policies such as attendance, health, and behaviour so families feel informed, not overwhelmed.

Clarity reduces anxiety and builds confidence.

10. Invite Questions and Close With Care

Give families space to ask questions. Answer openly and honestly with clarity and reassurance.

Before they leave, summarise what you have shared and thank them sincerely for their time. Let them know how to contact you and encourage them to explore your social media or website to see daily life in action.

A calm, confident close leaves a lasting impression.

11. Gently Asking Families to Take the Next Step

Many nurseries deliver a beautiful tour and then stop short of inviting families to enroll.

If you believe in the quality of care you provide, it is appropriate to say so.

Share what makes your nursery strong. Speak about your values, your team, and your commitment to children. If you have parent feedback or testimonials, offer them naturally.

You may also explain availability honestly. If spaces are limited, say so with confidence and transparency. Families appreciate clarity.

Some settings choose to offer a time-bound incentive, such as a registration benefit if families enroll within a set period. If this suits your nursery, explain it simply and without pressure.

The goal is not to push. It is to guide families who already feel connected.


12. Thoughtful Follow-Up Makes a Difference

Not every family will enroll immediately. Sometimes “not now” truly means not yet.

If families leave without registering, follow up within a few days. A short message or call can reopen the conversation and show genuine care.

For example:
“Thank you again for visiting. It was lovely to meet you and your child. Please let me know if you have any questions or if I can support you further.”

Some nurseries also choose to send a handwritten note. These small gestures are remembered.

When families feel respected and valued, they return when the time is right.

Closing Thoughts

An exceptional nursery tour is not about selling. It is about connection, clarity, and confidence.

When staff understand the purpose of each stage of the tour, families feel guided rather than overwhelmed. They leave knowing what you stand for, how children learn, and whether your setting feels right for their child.

Lead with warmth. Speak with honesty. Trust in the quality of the care you provide.

FAQs

FAQs

How long should a nursery tour last?
Most tours last between 30 and 45 minutes. Allow time for conversation rather than rushing.
Who should conduct nursery tours?
Tours should be led by confident staff who understand daily practice and can speak comfortably with families.
Should children be present during the tour?
Yes. Seeing real learning in action helps families understand your approach.
What if parents ask difficult questions?
Answer honestly. It is better to build trust than to promise what cannot be delivered.
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