Circle Time with Tim

Leadership Tips for Owners in Early Childhood Education

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January 12, 2026
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10 Min Read

About Tim Seldin

Author, Educator and President of The Montessori Foundation

Tim Seldin is an author, educator and the President of The Montessori Foundation and Chair of The International Montessori Council. His more than forty years of experience in Montessori education includes twenty-two years as Headmaster of the Barrie School in Silver Spring, Maryland. He is the author of several books including “The World In The Palm of Her Hand” more

About Lara Hudson

Early Years Leader and Education Strategist

Lara is an early years professional with over 25 years of international experience, including two decades in the UAE education sector. She has held senior leadership roles such as Chief Operating Officer and Country Manager for major training and education groups. She is also a passionate advocate for the power of early experiences in shaping lifelong learning.

Running a childcare center is deeply meaningful work. It is also demanding. Every day, families trust you with what matters most to them. Your leadership shapes how safe children feel, how supported teachers feel, and how confident families feel in your program.

Childcare leadership is not only about operations or compliance. It is about building a living community. One where children thrive, teachers grow, and the center remains financially healthy.

Over the past 40 years, I have worked with childcare and school leaders in many settings. Some were opening their first center. Others were leading multi-site programs. Some were modernizing long established schools. The strongest leaders shared a few clear habits. These habits helped them build stable, trusted, and joyful programs.

Below are leadership principles that consistently make the biggest difference.

Top 7 Leadership Principles to Follow

1. Lead With a Clear Purpose and Keep It Visible

Every successful childcare center has a heartbeat. A clear sense of why it exists.

When leaders articulate that purpose with clarity and consistency, it becomes the north star that guides decisions. It shapes hiring. It shapes marketing. It shapes classroom culture.

Your purpose might focus on nurturing independence. It might focus on supporting working families. It might focus on preparing children for kindergarten. Whatever it is, it must be clear, repeatable, and visible in daily practice.

Visible purpose shows up in simple ways. In how families are welcomed. In how teachers are spoken to. In how classrooms are designed.

People do not follow policies. They follow their purpose.

2. Build a Culture Where Teachers Feel Valued and Supported


Childcare leadership is, more than anything, people leadership.

Teachers are the heart of your program. When they feel respected and seen, they stay longer. They give more. They bring their best selves to children.

Strong leaders:

  • Create predictable routines for feedback and coaching: A 15-minute weekly check-in can transform morale.
  • Invest in professional development: Even small training signals that you care about your staff as professionals.
  • Build psychological safety: Teachers should feel comfortable speaking honestly about concerns, without fear of judgment.
  • Celebrate growth publicly: Recognition is fuel. A small acknowledgement at a staff meeting goes a long way.

Burnout is real in childcare. A leader’s role is to protect teachers’ sense of meaning and help them feel successful every day.

3. Communicate Clearly and Transparently with Families

Families today crave communication, transparency, and partnership. Their biggest worry is the unknown. What is my child doing? Are they happy? Are they learning?

When leaders are visible, approachable, and proactive, trust grows.

This might mean:

  • Greeting families at drop off a few mornings each week.
  • Being available for short conversations.
  • Sharing updates through digital tools like illumine so families stay informed without adding work for teachers.
  • Hosting short Q and A sessions or family evenings.

These moments help families feel included rather than managed. When families feel seen and included, loyalty grows. That loyalty drives retention and word of mouth more than any marketing effort.

4. Strengthen Your Systems to Focus More on Steady Growth


Strong leadership is not about doing more. It is about creating systems so you do not have to do everything yourself.

Effective systems include clear enrollment pipelines, structured teacher onboarding, simple documentation processes, daily operations checklists, and standard communication templates.

For example, one center reduced daily interruptions by creating clear onboarding guides for new teachers. Expectations became clear. Stress went down.

When systems are strong, teams know what good looks like. Leaders experience fewer emergencies and are more calm to focus on the growth of their centers and the nurturing of the children.

5. Make Data Your Friend

Data does not replace intuition. It clarifies it.

Strong leaders track enrollment capacity, leads, conversions, teacher retention, classroom ratios, attendance trends, and basic financial indicators.

Even simple tracking reveals patterns. One director noticed that most inquiries arrived over the weekend. By adjusting response timing, enrollments increased.

Data shines a light on where a center is thriving and where it needs attention. It helps leaders make confident decisions instead of reactive ones.

6. Embrace Technology as a Leadership Tool

Childcare is human work. The administrative load can overwhelm even the strongest leader.

Technology is no longer optional. It is strategic.

Expert Recommendation: illumine can reduce paperwork, automate communication, simplify billing, support compliance, and strengthen enrollment pipelines—all from one app.

It helps leaders see what is happening across classrooms without hovering.

Technology gives leaders back time. That time belongs with people.

7. Lead With Humanity and Consistency

Leadership in childcare is a balance of heart and clarity.

Children, teachers, and families thrive when leadership is kind, steady, transparent, fair, and calm under pressure.

Your emotional tone becomes the emotional tone of the entire center. When leaders respond calmly during challenges, the entire community feels safer.

The best leaders model the same qualities they hope to nurture in children. Patience. Empathy. Honesty. The ability to learn from mistakes.

Closing Thoughts

Childcare leadership is not a role. It is a calling.

At its core, strong leadership in early childhood education comes down to a few essentials:

  • A clear purpose that acts as your north star and guides daily decisions
  • A supportive culture where teachers feel valued, heard, and respected
  • Open and consistent communication that builds trust with families
  • Strong systems that reduce daily stress and bring clarity to operations
  • Meaningful data that helps leaders make confident, timely decisions
  • Thoughtful use of technology to reduce administrative load and reclaim time
  • Calm, fair, and human leadership that sets the emotional tone for the center

When these elements work together, leadership becomes more intentional and less reactive. Teams feel safer. Families feel more confident. Children benefit from a stable and caring environment.

Strong leadership does not happen all at once. It develops through small, thoughtful choices made every day. Over time, those choices shape a childcare community that is steady, trusted, and built to last.

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